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Conflict Management Styles Explained
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Conflict Management Styles Explained — the complete framework explained: origins, dimensions, evidence, and limits. AssessWiki covers the theory from concept to practical application.
The five conflict modes
The Thomas-Kilmann model maps conflict behaviour along two axes: assertiveness (how much you pursue your own needs) and cooperativeness (how much you pursue the other's needs). The five modes are different combinations of these two dimensions:
- Competing — high assertiveness, low cooperation. Win-lose.
- Collaborating — high assertiveness, high cooperation. Win-win through problem-solving.
- Compromising — moderate on both. Split the difference.
- Avoiding — low on both. Withdraw or defer.
- Accommodating — low assertiveness, high cooperation. Yield.
When each mode is appropriate
No mode is inherently good or bad. Competing is right when speed matters and you are confident. Avoiding is right when the issue is trivial or emotions are too hot. The skill is matching the mode to the situation, not forcing one mode into every conflict.
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