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Average EQ score: what "above average" emotional intelligence really means
Last reviewed: October 2026 · Reviewer: AssessWiki Editorial · 5 min read
The short answer: "average EQ" only exists inside a specific test. On the MSCEIT, an ability-style measure, the average is 100 by design. On the self-report questionnaires most people actually take online, there is no shared average at all — and the two kinds of tests barely agree with each other. Here is how to read an EQ number without fooling yourself.
Two families of EQ tests, two very different "averages"
Emotional intelligence measurement split into two camps early on, and the split decides what "average" means:
- Ability tests — like the Mayer–Salovey–Caruso Emotional Intelligence Test (MSCEIT) — present emotion problems with better and worse answers. Its scores are standardized to a mean of 100 and a standard deviation of 15 (development and standardization reported in Mayer, Caruso, Salovey et al., 2025), so most test-takers fall between roughly 85 and 115, and "average" is a defined, published region of the scale.
- Self-report questionnaires — most of what "EQ test" means online, and every EQ check in this library — ask you to rate your own empathy, regulation, and social awareness. Each tool uses its own items, its own scale, and its own convenience sample. There is no population-wide average to compare against, and a site claiming "the average score is 78" for a home-grown questionnaire is inventing a norm.
Why self-ratings run high — and it isn't cheating
When researchers correlate the two families, the result is stubbornly flat: a 2003 review (Fordke, Chandler, Mackie, Maultsby & Watson) found the two families — self-report EI questionnaires and ability-style tests — largely uncorrelated. People who rate themselves emotionally skilled often don't score that way on tested emotion problems, and vice versa. That doesn't make self-report worthless — it makes it a measure of self-perception, which is its own useful signal: how you see your emotional behavior shapes what you attempt. It just isn't the same number, and a self-rating where most respondents place themselves "above average" is describing the scale's floor, not the population's ceiling.
The honest limits of even the standardized score
Being centered at 100 doesn't settle the debate. The MSCEIT keys its items by expert consensus or large-sample agreement, and critics (e.g., Antonakis, 2003) have argued that "correct" answers agreed on by popular vote are not evidence of a mental ability the way, say, a solving-a-matrix score is. Defenders point to reliability, norm data, and meaningful correlations with life outcomes. The reasonable stance: treat any single EQ number — from any camp — as one informed voice in a conversation about your emotional skills, never as a verdict. The EQ vs IQ comparison covers what the construct itself can and cannot carry.
So what should you do with your result?
Skip the percentile hunt; use the shape of your own answers. Self-report EQ tools are at their best when they show asymmetry — a pattern where your self-awareness outruns your social awareness, or your regulation holds at work but not at home. That is actionable in a way "103 vs. average 100" never is.
If you want a comparison number anyway, demand three things:
- A named norming sample (who, how many, when),
- evidence the instrument was scored on ability rather than self-belief — or honesty that it wasn't,
- the sample's representativeness stated, not footnoted.
Most consumer EQ pages fail all three, including, by design, ours — which is why ours print no average.
See your own pattern
Free, self-report EQ checks in this library — with the limits stated on the page, no norms invented:
Sources
- Mayer, J. D., Caruso, D. R., Salovey, P., Lin, I. Y., Hansma, B. J., Solomon, J., Sitarenios, G., & Romero Escobar, M. (2025). Measuring emotional intelligence with the MSCEIT 2: theory, rationale, and initial findings. Frontiers in Psychology, 16, 1539785. source ↗
- Fordke, M., Chandler, J., Mackie, D., Maultsby, L., & Watson, M. (2003). Direct and mixed measures of emotional intelligence. Personality and Individual Differences, 35(5), 1177–1189.
- Antonakis, J. (2003). On why “emotional intelligence” will not pass the g-sat test… Consulting Psychology Journal: Practice and Research, 55(4) — a critique of consensus-scoring methods.
- Brackett, M. A., & Salovey, P. (2006). Assessing individual differences in emotional intelligence (MSCEIT scoring methods). Psicothema, 18(SUPPL.), 36–43. source ↗
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